I found out today that researcher Robert Atchley identified the stages of retirement:
Stage 1: Planning. ...
Stage 2: Excitement. ...
Stage 3: Honeymoon. ...
Stage 4: Disenchantment. ...
Stage 5: Reorientation & Stability. ...
I am at the final stages of Stage 1 Planning and waiting to feel the Excitement of Stage 2 soon, very soon.
What a strange time to retire. I can't pursue several activities that I had planned in my mind that I could start at this moment. Right now the pandemic makes going out in the world a dangerous act.
To be truthful I feel more relief than excitement right now. Maybe there should be an interim stage between Planning and Excitement.
Stage 1.5: Relief.
At this stage in my life I know several people, family, friends, and colleagues, who have reached retirement before I have. I get a mixed bag of advise from them. A mixed bag of feelings too. What different stages are they in at the moment?
I'll have to see as I progress through the early days and months of retirement if I can relate to the five stages.
I'm still filling out forms, seeking guidance, making decisions, trying to put things in motion, so that I can finally feel, several days from today, that I am RETIRED.
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